Shall I Help U?

Q: What is 'Shall I Help U?'
A: 'Shall I Help U?' is a very new idea which we follow. Here we try to solve your problems (if you have any). What problems? It may be the difficulty in solving puzzles, not able to think in new and novel ways or facing some non-technical problem which you are unable to tell your family/friends/relatives. Literally any kind of problem you like to share with us. We make an honest attempt to view the situation from different viewpoints and give you some suggestions so as to overcome your problem. We may not be able to solve the problem completely but we assure you that this kind of bidirectional discussion really helps and is the first step towards the solution of the problem.

Q: What are the benefits for Us and for U from 'Shall I Help U?'
A: Benefits for Us:
-> A feel of satisfaction to help others w.r.t the problems which are injurious to mind.
-> A logical point. When your problems gets solved you direct more people to look into the site. So we get more visitors by the word of mouth (fastest means of advertisement).

Benefits for U:
-> Your problem gets solved completely or at least you take the first step towards the problem solution.
-> The whole life is a game of problems and solutions. When you solve your current problem, you can move on to solve the next set of problems which arise from the solution got for the former problem.

Q: Why 'Shall I Help U?'
A: Consider the following small story:

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation..

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days, weeks and months passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'

Moral:
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.

When we share problems,
    There's half the pain.
When we share tears,
    A rainbow follows rain.

When we share laughter,
    There's twice the fun.
When we share success,
    We've surpassed what we've done.

Q: Where to send your doubts/questions/problems/...?
A: Send your anything and everything to shallihelpu@gmail.com